Showing posts with label blessings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label blessings. Show all posts

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Change of focus

"So do not fear for I am with you; 
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.  
I will strengthen you and help you; 
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." 
~ Isaiah 41:10

Last week was rough.  Very rough.  Going back to work was hard enough in itself, but it also happened to be the same week that Tucker's acid reflux issues only seemed to get worse.  Things are certainly better than they were at the start of last week, but Brett and I are both feeling like just when we start getting one symptom/ area figured out and under control, another one intensifies and we are constantly taking one step forward and 3 steps back. We have a long way to go, but are thankful that we are fighting a battle that actually has a solution, even though we aren't sure what it is just yet.  Things could be so much worse...


When I start to get angry about something and head down that "poor me" direction of thought, God has a way of putting things into perspective for me once again.  Today's reminder was delivered early this morning during Tuck's feeding.  (I generally don't turn the T.V. on at night so that he learns good sleep habits/ avoids stimulation, ect. , but when I could barely keep my eyes open and was nodding off, the need for something to wake me won out.)  I haven't watched the news in a few days and was brought to tears by the pictures of the damage caused by all of the tornados ripping through America right now.  Here I am being bitter about not getting enough sleep or about having a baby who seems to cry constantly and these people have lost literally everything.  How dare I feel upset about my trivial situation when there are parents out there dealing with having the home they envisioned raising their newborn in being reduced to splinters or being faced with the new reality of being a single parent because the twister took their husband as well.  I can't even imagine dealing with that kind of pain, or the kind of strength and faith needed to put one foot in front of the other for those families. 
  
Severe Weather


See the devastation for yourself by checking out this link 


So today, I ask you to join me in prayer for those who need it most.  Those you know and those you don't.  When you take a second to stop praying for yourself and start praying for someone else, you may just realize how blessed you truly are.  

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Tucker's Baptism

On Sunday Tucker was baptized at St. Louis Catholic Church in Castroville, Texas.  It is the church Brett's entire family is very involved in.  We got married there as did almost all of his relatives on both sides.  It is also the same church where Brett, his father, and his grandfather were baptized.  That's four generations of Haby boys which is pretty neat!

Our little family.  (My grandma Pomerening handmade that prayer shawl for him.  She lives in Virginia, and couldn't make it in so having him wrapped in her love and blessings for the ceremony meant a lot to me since she is a big part of the reason I have such a strong relationship with the Lord. ) 
Sweet boy before the baptism. 





Tucker and his Godparents; Auntie Erin and Uncle Brandon. 
Tucker and my parents.
Tucker and Brett's parents. 
Brett's entire side of the family in attendance.
My entire side of the family in attendance.  Can you tell Tucker was getting pretty fussy by this point?  Great Grandma Arnold is trying her hardest to get him to smile. ;) 
After mass and the ceremony, the immediate family headed back to the Haby's house for lunch and visiting.  We are so blessed to have such a loving and supportive family that went above and beyond to make this day special for us.  Both sides prepared a plethora of delicious food and my in-laws also opened up their home for the event and we all know how much work goes into getting a house ready to entertain 20 guests.  (All four grandparents have also already babysat so that Brett and I can have 2 nice date days/ nights.  Posts on those two events to come as soon as I have a little more spare time.)  
All three of us love you guys so very much and are so thankful for you and all that you do for us!

4 generations of Haby men!
Tucker and his Godmother.  She lives in St. Louis and we really miss her.  But, we are all going to visit this summer!
Blessing for little man. 
Playing with mommy later.  Silly boy already wants to try and stand. ;)  (Don't mind half naked Uncle Brandon in the background trying to finish a project for class due 3 hours later… It is a common occurrence. )
Tucker wore the same outfit that his Daddy and uncles all wore when they were baptized at St. Louis, which we think was pretty special.  They were about the same age when they wore it, but we could not fit Tucker's long feet in the little shoes.  I had tried them on three days before and they had fit, so he is growing fast!

Brett after his baptism in July of 1985.
Tucker after his baptism in February of 2012.
Me at my baptism in July of 1993.  That is the grandma who made his blanket. 
 Before I had a baby, I would have designed way cute invitations, baked and iced crossed sugar cookies and done a whole bunch of Pinterest ideas for the celebration.  Now however, I am lucky that I got all three of us dressed and to church on time with no major diaper explosions, spit up episodes, or missing make-up.  Definitely went to the doctors office last week with half of my make-up applied and didn't realize it until I got home.  Apparently I got distracted by the baby mid-make-up application… 

Anyways, I am still adjusting to not always having it together as much as my type A personality would like and have come to realize that life will always throw curve balls your way, especially right when you have just gotten everything just right.  Most of the time you can't do a thing about many of the situations and I am finally figuring out that the best thing to do is simply change your perspective. Now that I am back at work and we are still struggling to figure out the best combo to keep T man happy and healthy, we are often going day by day and have really had to approach things differently.  However, we are cherishing every minute and making them really count! :)